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17th Jan 2018

Sex Spoken Here: Sex and Being Trans _ E's Story

Sex Spoken Here:  Sex and Being Trans – E’s Story

 

 

Welcome to my virtual therapy room!  I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones.   This week I’m talking with E about being a pre-operative transsexual person and how this impacts sexual relationships.

 

E is at 20 year old trans male who lives in Texas who says he is a ‘huge nerd and adore Harry Potter.  I love to laugh and people tell me I am very deep.’

 

Welcome to the show. 

Erik spoke about being at the stage of saving for hormone treatment and feeling that it was a bit late at 20 years old.  He spoke about how awkward it can be having a female body and identifying as a male when trying to make sexual connections.  He spoke about the importance of people using the pronouns that the person identifies as the ones they prefer and how important talking about sex and gender is when meeting a prospective partner.  He said that he always looks to make sure that things are clear when he first meets someone and that though it is often awkward at the beginning it is less awkward than when this is left until just before something sexual happens.

 

Erik emphasised respect as one of the most important things when dealing with someone from a different gender identification.

 

Today we spoke about being a pre-operative transsexual, negotiating sexual relationships, If you were triggered or if this resonates with you, do email me at drbisbey@the-intimacy-coach.com .

 

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Sex Spoken Here
Sex Spoken Here Podcast
Welcome to Sex Spoken Here with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey! Welcoming to my virtual therapy rooms! Talking about sexual concerns, issues and problems can be incredibly difficult. Finding accurate information in this age of information overload is a challenge. Finding a safe space to raise sexual desires, fears and worries is often almost impossible. As a sex coach and psychotherapist, I offer a safe place from which to explore. Each week I will delve into a topic from the realm of sex, intimacy and relationships. No subject is taboo! I will draw my topics from my own areas of interest, 30 years’ experience seeing clients, and topics sent in by you! I will have special guests who will discuss debate and advice on areas from first sexual experiences to all varieties of kinky sex to serial monogamy to dealing with sexually transmitted disease. I’ll answer those questions you have found it too embarrassing to ask, address the nitty gritty in down to earth language. To find out more and connect with me, head on over to my website at www.the-intimacy-coach.com.

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Lori Beth Bisbey

Dr Lori Beth Bisbey® is a psychologist, sex & intimacy coach, speaker, author & podcast host who has been working with people for 30+ years to help them create and maintain meaningful relationships with sizzling sex (without the shame). She has expertise in the treatment of trauma and GSRD (gender, sex, relationship diversity). The A to Z of Sex® (her main podcast) has been running since October 2016. Since end January 2019, it has been featured on the Health & Wellness channel, Voiceamerica.com.